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Thursday, 13 December 2012

REAL MEN II - Treat 'Em Mean


“Man, she’s like a princess or something,” are the first words to emerge, with the two men, from muttering shadows beyond my neighbour’s fence-line. “Guys would treat her like a treasure” (You hear all kinds of poetry sitting on your balcony at three in the morning).
            “Nah, mate, I treat her like shit, bro”. You’ve seen this guy before: body almost square; that awkward steroidal gait, arms stuck out forty-five degrees – the closest his biceps will let them get to his sides; no-neck bucket-head shaved high and tight, fudged up bristle on top; all chin and forehead. “She’s dying inside – she tells me all the time”.
            It’s not a drunken confession. This type of guy doesn’t drink much – too many carbs. No, the behemoth is bragging. He’s proud of himself.
            Why (Not, why is he proud of himself. You can answer that just by looking at him)? The question that screams at many a man and most women is: why would any woman subject herself to that? What’s the attraction?
            My friend, Parkstreet, has touched on this (Go to www.kentparkstreetblog.com and type “The Lovable Rogue” into the search field; highly recommended). Despite his many faults, however, the lovable rogue of my friend’s blog is at least entertaining. I know: my mother married two of them. But what hold does this brute exercise over a woman – let alone one with the choices our culture offers to beauty?
            It’s not a rhetorical question; I really want to know. Parkstreet and I aren’t the only two guys to have racked our brains trying to figure it out. And evidently loverboy’s companion is struggling with the answer too.
            It can’t be that he’s spectacular in bed. Women in a position to know tell me juicing gym junkies soon lose the ability, even if they retain the interest.
            Some would say money, but it’s not that either: he’s on foot. Although Hulk isn’t drunk, his mate obviously is. The only drinking holes within walking distance have been shut for hours, yet they haven’t taken a cab or driven home – whatever money he has left-over after gym fees went on the brand-name shirt stretched across his beefy back.
            So, I don’t know. I wouldn’t mind betting who does, though. It’s the guy whose shoulder the woman probably cries on when He-Man’s not around; maybe the one who, at present, is trying to talk him into behaving like a human being.
            Maybe she’ll run away with him. Wouldn’t that be lovely? Nice Guy gets his treasure; the woman gets someone who’ll treat her like a princess; and knucklehead gets to be with the one he truly loves – his reflection in the gym wall mirror. And they all live happily ever after ...
            ... Nah.
            Laurel and Hardy fade beyond the farther fence-line, voices mingling again with the darkness. I drain my coffee mug and step back into my own shadows. Maybe if I stare at the ceiling and groan long enough I’ll eventually get some sleep.

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